Cornerstones of Care Bloghttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blogf2803ea8-a9f7-46d1-8703-f221797180e0https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2024/04/17/National-Volunteer-Appreciation-Week-Chicktime-Volunteers-Empower-Girls-at-the-Ozanam-Campus-to-Discover-Their-PassionNational Volunteer Appreciation Week: Chicktime Volunteers Empower Girls at the Ozanam Campus to Discover Their PassionFrom building a campfire to crafting macrame wall hangings, the girls in residential treatment at the Ozanam Campus always anticipate an exciting Saturday when the Chicktime volunteers come visit. Feel inspired this National Volunteer Appreciation Week by learning more about the women behind Chicktime, our featured volunteer group.2024-04-17T14:53:00-05:006d9fb9c1-4e4a-4723-8162-6e932a7d6636https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2024/04/11/Building-Bridges-for-Student-Success-BIST-Program-Uplifts-Struggling-Middle-School-StudentBuilding Bridges for Student Success: BIST Program Uplifts Struggling Middle School StudentLearn how a dedicated school counselor, an assistant principal, and a supportive team joined forces with their BIST Consultant to implement the model and foster trust, skill-building, and, ultimately, success for one Hocker Grove Middle School student. 2024-04-11T14:06:00-05:006b00532f-b7fb-4e92-9ec9-59ff58a8ae08https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2024/04/04/National-Child-Abuse-Prevention-Month-Planting-Seeds-to-Reduce-Child-Abuse-One-Family-at-a-TimeNational Child Abuse Prevention Month: Planting Seeds to Reduce Child Abuse One Family at a TimeChild abuse is a topic that most people avoid, but the dedicated specialists who work in Intensive In-Home and Intensive Family Reunification services (IIS/IFRS) run towards it. In this guest blog, Lead IIS/IFRS Specialist, Alyshia Wayland, breaks down five common reasons why child abuse occurs, and how her team uses education, a trusting relationship – and a little humor – to get families back on the right track.2024-04-04T15:08:00-05:0008ea0964-0d13-4df2-ab98-f410f6d75b8ahttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2024/03/19/Team-Member-Profile-Jerry-McNealTeam Member Profile: Jerry McNealJerry McNeal’s first job in residential treatment was as a Youth Specialist at the Northwest Regional Youth Center in Missouri, working for three years with some of the most severe cases of childhood trauma. Now in his sixth year at Cornerstones of Care, Jerry invests what he has learned from others into his team members and the youth they serve. 2024-03-19T12:03:00-05:0044cca60b-66de-4536-9b03-b5b35eb89e1bhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2024/03/05/Cornerstones-of-Care-Leaders-Reflect-on-Impactful-Women-in-Leadership-Journey-Cornerstones of Care Leaders Reflect on Impactful Women in Leadership Journey This International Women’s Day, our four women in leadership reflect on the women in their lives who helped shape them into the leaders they are today.2024-03-05T15:21:00-06:00a8e2aaf8-96ae-4101-8814-8ef1b9fa2f62https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2024/02/29/Family-Preservation-Services-Helps-Stabilize-Single-Parent-Family-Family Preservation Services Helps Stabilize Single Parent Family Megan Pelton, a Tier 2 Family Preservation Case Manager, had been providing services for *Erin Warren and her three children for three months when she received a phone call that no case manager ever wants to receive. 2024-02-29T09:33:00-06:00ddb2406c-318a-4cb3-872c-df3feb9e9542https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2024/02/27/For-Ozanam-Eagles-Basketball-Gives-a-Sense-of-PurposeFor Ozanam Eagles, Basketball Gives a Sense of PurposeThe eighth-seeded Ozanam Eagles boys’ basketball team played its opening round of the Great Plains Athletic Conference tournament on February 20, facing the top-seeded Independence Home School Lions. 2024-02-27T16:25:00-06:00c3478c29-4dce-412d-b40d-344561645ca0https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2024/02/09/Residential-Youth-Enjoy-Diverse-Adventures-Across-Kansas-City-Metro-Thanks-to-Hunt-Family-Foundation-GrantResidential Youth Enjoy Diverse Adventures Across Kansas City Metro Thanks to Hunt Family Foundation GrantFrom fighting dragons at Sandbox Virtual Reality to catching foul balls at a Kansas City Monarch’s baseball game, the youth in Cornerstones of Care’s on-campus living programs enjoyed a wide variety of field trip adventures in 2023. 2024-02-09T11:04:00-06:00cc106e07-8d8c-45fd-91cf-573e70a53f4ehttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2024/02/09/Getting-Real-About-Workplace-Boundaries-A-Three-Part-SeriesGetting Real About Workplace Boundaries: A Three-Part SeriesPart 3 - Boundaries with Remote Teams | If you’ve ever seen an episode of The Office, you’ll recognize what can happen when coworkers have poor boundaries with one another – office romances, secrets and scandals, and lots of interpersonal drama. While it may be entertaining on the television screen, it’s clear that a work environment like the one depicted in The Office is problematic at best. 2024-02-09T10:46:00-06:00c81273c8-3b5f-467a-8dbd-ac603edcd0e7https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2024/02/02/Mentorship-Program-Brings-Consistency-of-Care-to-Kids-in-the-Ozanam-Campus-Residential-Treatment-ProgramMentorship Program Brings Consistency of Care to Kids in the Ozanam Campus Residential Treatment ProgramWhile Alan may have a special gift for bowling, he openly admits that he has nothing on his 13-year-old mentee, *Miles, when it comes to basketball. “He is an awesome basketball player; he kicks my butt every time we play,” said Alan. Since August 2023, Alan has been visiting Miles weekly through the Cornerstones of Care mentorship program. 2024-02-02T10:20:00-06:00e9f46079-4212-43f1-af9d-ace3f61b9776https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2024/01/30/Mentorship-Program-Brings-Consistency-of-Care-to-Kids-in-the-Ozanam-Campus-Residential-Treatment-ProgramMentorship Program Brings Consistency of Care to Kids in the Ozanam Campus Residential Treatment ProgramThis National Mentoring Month, learn more about Catherine and Allen, two of our incredible mentors, who dedicate their time to two youth in the Ozanam Campus Residential Treatment Program. 2024-01-30T15:40:00-06:0037144335-28f5-45a8-963c-eddd0234e9c0https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/12/20/BIST-Program-Brings-Principles-of-Grace-and-Accountability-Into-the-HomeBIST Program Brings Principles of Grace and Accountability Into the HomeMost people will recognize BIST as a school-based program that supports teachers, administrators, and other school staff as they partner with students to address behavioral issues. First introduced to schools in 1989, the BIST program has grown to include more than 330 schools in nine states. BIST is now in its third year of offering in-home services and has seen overwhelmingly positive results. Join us as we learn about the Saunders family and their year-long journey with Lead BIST Consultant, Linda Hosman to bring more grace and accountability into the home. 2023-12-20T13:48:00-06:00896cdbd4-d0a9-4769-9559-4e83c53cb2c6https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/12/19/Balancing-Traditions-and-Transitions-Navigating-the-Holidays-in-Foster-CareBalancing Traditions and Transitions: Navigating the Holidays in Foster CareThe holidays can be a difficult time for foster and adoptive families due to the grief and loss of family separation. In this latest blog post, hear from Brittany and team member Shannon Garber about how caretakers can prepare for the holidays – unexpected tantrums, calls and visits with biological family members, and more. You’ll also hear from two foster families about how they navigate this time of year and the resources that have been helpful to them. 2023-12-19T09:56:00-06:00d2f52317-89aa-4971-9a1f-587ecd3edf41https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/12/01/Donors-Make-Holiday-Dreams-Come-True-Through-NASB-North-PoleDonors Make Holiday Dreams Come True Through NASB North PoleEvery year, Cornerstones of Care delivers the joy of the holiday season to over 1,500 families in the Kansas City area through NASB North Pole. This extraordinary feat is only made possible by generous people like Carol, Richard, and Beverly who help to supply the gifts for the Gift Gallery and Sponsor-A-Youth program. Feel inspired this December and learn how you, too, can make a difference for a family in your community. 2023-12-01T11:01:00-06:00dc5fe1fd-1f4f-4d63-b589-3b3f836f2035https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/11/10/From-Foster-Care-to-Finish-Line-One-Family%E2%80%99s-Journey-to-AdoptionFrom Foster Care to Finish Line: One Family’s Journey to AdoptionOn March 8, 2023, Malachi O’Brien broke a Guinness World Record by running 153 marathons in a row – all to raise awareness for foster care and adoption. The 40-year-old pastor from Peculiar, Mo., holds a doctoral degree in social media and marketing and knows that to get people to pay attention to something, you must be willing to do something a little bit crazy.2023-11-10T10:21:00-06:00842d62d6-db01-4de0-99e0-10212bbb8691https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/11/10/Team-Member-Profile-Nicole-Newton-Has-Three-Reasons-to-Celebrate-National-Adoption-MonthTeam Member Profile: Nicole Newton Has Three Reasons to Celebrate National Adoption MonthNicole Newton is the Director of Resource Family Development at Cornerstones of Care, but her work in foster care and adoption isn't just part of her job -- it's part of her life. Over the years, Nicole has fostered 24 children and is the proud adoptive mother of three now adult children.2023-11-10T09:37:00-06:00ea335e68-fefe-49cf-9ce7-917501063c7fhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/10/19/An-Inside-Look-at-IEPs-with-Training-Specialist-Katie-Ramel-An Inside Look at IEPs with Training Specialist Katie Ramel What is an IEP, and how do you qualify for one? Who can advocate for an IEP? Are there any special considerations for families with children in foster care? In this brief conversation, Katie Ramel shares her expertise with teachers, parents, case managers, foster parents, and anyone who wants to learn how better to serve the needs of our youngest community members. 2023-10-19T15:07:00-05:007d7a80a8-e397-460c-8d57-57b4eccea0d4https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/10/16/Performance-Excellence-What-Is-It-Why-It-Matters-And-How-the-PE-Team-Is-Taking-Cornerstones-of-Care-to-the-Next-LevelPerformance Excellence: What Is It, Why It Matters, And How the PE Team Is Taking Cornerstones of Care to the Next LevelMeet the Performance Excellence (PE) Team: the essential middle piece of our work at Cornerstones of Care, collecting and synthesizing organizational data and translating it for the public. If you haven't heard of them, then now's your chance to get to know the team as they set the stage for a new chapter of excellence at Cornerstones of Care.2023-10-16T15:48:00-05:0091494b6c-2488-4ad4-97f8-393658329afbhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/10/13/Adolescent-Substance-Use-Counselor-Teaches-Teens-to-Manage-Substance-Misuse-Through-MusicAdolescent Substance Use Counselor Teaches Teens to Manage Substance Misuse Through MusicTatum Clark has always been interested in working with adolescents, so when she was given the opportunity to complete her Music Therapy practicum at the Juvenile Detention Center in Springfield, Missouri, she jumped on it.2023-10-13T11:28:00-05:003dec09be-6637-42ff-a023-7f7054bdfd3ahttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/09/22/Getting-Real-About-Workplace-Boundaries-A-Three-Part-SeriesGetting Real About Workplace Boundaries: A Three-Part SeriesPart Two - Boundaries with Clients | In this second part, we'll explore how to create boundaries with clients and how safety and predictability intersect to create real therapeutic change.2023-09-22T13:56:00-05:0076dbf244-6f34-479e-befd-777cdedbc841https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/09/06/Preparing-Youth-in-Foster-Care-for-College-Unlocking-Their-Potential-for-a-Bright-FuturePreparing Youth in Foster Care for College: Unlocking Their Potential for a Bright FutureFor young people in foster care, the path to higher education can be challenging. They may have faced instability and adversity, which could impact their academic journey. They may lack the funds, resources, and support systems to navigate scholarship applications and the entire admissions process. With the right support and guidance, young people can overcome obstacles and unlock their full potential. In this blog, we’ll explore the importance of preparing youth in foster care for college and offer some valuable tips to help them move closer to achieving their dreams.2023-09-06T13:31:00-05:007517f37d-e7e0-44e9-9720-865fdc6938d8https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/08/30/Intensive-In-Home-Services-Program-Offers-a-Helping-Hand-to-Stroke-SurvivorIntensive In-Home Services Program Offers a Helping Hand to Stroke SurvivorMeet Tara, a dedicated literacy specialist whose life took an unexpected turn after two strokes. The impact was profound, affecting daily tasks and even her teaching career. But through the Cornerstones of Care Intensive In-Home Services (IIS) program, Tara found a lifeline. With unwavering support from IIS/IFRS Specialist Briar Strunk, she redefined her routine, connected with mental health resources, and learned to ask for help. Amidst challenges, Tara's story is a testament to strength and growth. 2023-08-30T13:37:00-05:00c721ea73-ba1b-4780-9686-8679d06be4c1https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/08/03/Foster-Care-Isn%E2%80%99t-Perfect-Retired-Doctor-Shares-the-Joys-and-Challenges-of-Fostering-Adolescent-BoysFoster Care Isn’t Perfect: Retired Doctor Shares the Joys and Challenges of Fostering Adolescent BoysWhen Timothy Murphy, MD, decided to become a foster parent, he knew that he wanted to provide a home for adolescent boys. It wasn’t just because teenagers, especially teenage boys, are disproportionately represented in the U.S. foster care system, and he wanted to fill a need. Tim chose to foster adolescent boys because he had experience working with this population as a doctor and knew this was where he could make the greatest impact. 2023-08-03T15:13:00-05:003e949427-3984-44db-847e-6fa972c5ddf0https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/07/25/Collaborative-Care-Makes-a-Transformative-Difference-at-the-Ozanam-Campus-Day-Treatment-SchoolCollaborative Care Makes a Transformative Difference at the Ozanam Campus Day Treatment SchoolFor nearly 50 years, the Ozanam Campus Day Treatment School has been doing things differently to address its students’ unique behavioral and academic challenges. Located on the southern edge of Kansas City, Missouri, the school provides individualized curriculum, small class sizes, and therapeutic support for students in grades 6-12 who have yet to find success in their regular classroom setting due to unique academic or behavioral challenges. 2023-07-25T09:31:00-05:000a143763-08f1-4e16-a53c-48ccb1e923b3https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/07/18/Getting-Real-About-Workplace-Boundaries-A-Three-Part-SeriesGetting Real About Workplace Boundaries: A Three-Part SeriesPart One – Work/Home Life Boundaries | Like many of us, Cornerstones of Care’s Human Resources Manager Reza Soleymani-Alizadeh used to be pretty lousy at setting boundaries around work. 2023-07-18T09:45:00-05:00737942f3-538a-455f-832d-8fc5dd0b818bhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/06/20/Team-Member-Profile-Is-there-anything-Lea-Loudon-can%E2%80%99t-doTeam Member Profile: Is there anything Lea Loudon can’t do?A mom of four, a City Council Member for the city of Mission, Kansas, and the new Community Engagement Manager for Cornerstones of Care, Lea Loudon has made serving others an essential part of her professional life.2023-06-20T13:19:00-05:0000db4a7d-beee-4284-8522-d41448b32537https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/06/13/Expressive-Therapy-Uses-Art-to-Overcome-TraumaExpressive Therapy Uses Art to Overcome TraumaExpressive therapy combines principles of psychology and the benefits of the creative process to promote emotional growth and healing. The expressive therapists at the Ozanam Campus Day Treatment School provide at least one session each week to the 42 youth on campus as a supplement to their other school curriculum and activities. It is creative, but it’s more than just play. As with any other therapy, it is a way to provide trauma-informed care. 2023-06-13T11:55:00-05:00f1332c0e-5b12-40eb-9714-cfef8044f0e9https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/06/09/Foster-Parents-Find-%E2%80%98Beautiful-Chaos%E2%80%99-in-the-Joys-and-Challenges-of-Foster-CareFoster Parents Find ‘Beautiful Chaos’ in the Joys and Challenges of Foster CareCourtney Morgan-Roberts was boarding a plane to California in early January for a work trip when she received a congratulatory email announcing that she and her partner, Brittany were officially licensed as foster parents. A few hours later, the plane landed on the west coast, and Courtney checked her phone again. To her surprise, there was a voicemail in her inbox that said, “We have a five-month-old girl. Can you take her?”2023-06-09T11:00:00-05:00e5207ace-deac-4fca-8628-dbd3d4f31babhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/05/24/Cornerstones-of-Care-Champions-Seek-Young-Professionals-Ready-to-Make-a-DifferenceCornerstones of Care Champions Seek Young Professionals Ready to Make a DifferenceRebranded in 2022 as a young professionals group, the Cornerstones of Care Champions are back and ready to make a difference in the lives of children and families. 2023-05-24T08:51:00-05:00d26dde9e-f1c7-47c2-b57b-7da87696ea2bhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/05/04/BIST-in-Action-33-Years-of-Impact-in-Public-Schools---Guest-Blog-by-Marty-Huitt-Director-of-BISTBIST in Action: 33 Years of Impact in Public Schools - Guest Blog by Marty Huitt, Director of BISTMy journey with the BIST (Behavior Intervention Support Team) began in 1997 as a BIST Consultant working in schools throughout the Kansas City metro area. Six years later, I took on the role of Director of BIST. Since that time, I have had the awesome opportunity to witness schools on their journey to enhance care for students.2023-05-04T12:24:00-05:004406d031-c233-462e-8f98-1e5215d9ec3ahttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/05/01/YES-Program-Helps-Former-Foster-Care-Youth-Turn-Dreams-Into-RealityYES Program Helps Former Foster Care Youth Turn Dreams Into RealitySince she was five years old, Eugenia Doreen Wallace – who goes by Doreen – knew she wanted to be a lawyer. 2023-05-01T10:24:00-05:00b1cfe2d1-c806-4f0c-8de7-cee770f09a10https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/04/27/National-Child-Abuse-Prevention-Month-How-School-Based-Services-Can-Help-Build-a-Safer-World-for-KidsNational Child Abuse Prevention Month: How School-Based Services Can Help Build a Safer World for Kids“Hospitals and schools are the number one source of hotline referrals for abuse,” said Julie Plunkett, Clinical Manager for school-based services in Kansas City. “We’re getting in at one of those catch points for hotlines for abuse. Hopefully, we can help head some of that off before it worsens and be a natural support for those families.”2023-04-27T12:15:00-05:00c781dc22-9727-408c-b0ef-c20a29874de9https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/04/21/Book-Buddies-Make-a-Difference-in-the-Lives-of-Students-One-Book-at-a-TimeBook Buddies Make a Difference in the Lives of Students One Book at a TimeThe Book Buddies arrive at the Gillis Campus Day Treatment School library shortly before 1:00 p.m. every Monday with a book cart, a large tub of art supplies, and smiles all around as they prepare for an hour of reading, crafts, and fun with the kids. 2023-04-21T09:19:00-05:00f0d9d573-8696-42b8-a861-543eb33696behttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/04/19/Structural-Engineer-%E2%80%98Pays-It-Forward%E2%80%99-As-Volunteer-for-Build-Trybe-Building-Trades-ProgramStructural Engineer ‘Pays It Forward’ As Volunteer for Build Trybe Building Trades ProgramOn the first day of National Women in Construction Week this March, Marcia Bolton walked into The Shop by Build Trybe for her Monday volunteer shift and gasped.2023-04-19T10:49:00-05:001a004a1d-3004-44e4-a60c-05565debeb22https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/04/17/Kansas-City-Young-Matrons-Assist-with-Preparations-for-Upcoming-Plant-SaleKansas City Young Matrons Assist with Preparations for Upcoming Plant SaleFor over a decade, this group of women has helped with the Thyme for Kids Plant Sale by volunteering for two hours on Tuesdays leading up to the big event. 2023-04-17T09:55:00-05:004ab7146d-9381-4837-9165-404a0b34e660https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/04/06/Build-Trybe-Graduate-Finds-Confidence-to-Pursue-the-Next-Big-Dream--To-Become-a-Travel-NurseBuild Trybe Graduate Finds Confidence to Pursue the Next Big Dream: To Become a Travel NurseDaisy’s experience with Build Trybe is precisely the type of safe space that Build Trybe instructors try to create for the apprentices – a space that is more than just a shop but a mentorship community that empowers youth with employable skills and provides emotional support as needed.2023-04-06T13:16:00-05:00f819c834-18cf-4794-815f-8fbc86a29c96https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/03/30/Social-Work-Breaks-Barriers-Part-TwoSocial Work Breaks Barriers: Part TwoIn our second edition highlighting standout social workers at Cornerstones of Care, we meet Patricia, David, Ky, and Christina and ask them about their entry into the social work field, how they manage challenging client cases and systemic challenges, and much more.2023-03-30T17:28:00-05:002822a6da-6ad0-42fa-a270-c62f4642d3b7https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/03/20/Social-Work-Breaks-Barriers-Part-OneSocial Work Breaks Barriers: Part OneThis National Social Work Month, we highlight the stories of several standout social workers at Cornerstones of Care. In these mini-profiles, we meet Kaitlyn, Ikeshia, and Ben, and ask them about their entry into the social work field, how they manage challenging client cases and systemic challenges, and much more.2023-03-20T14:16:00-05:005c294075-0aea-4ce2-898c-88e1838f4fddhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/03/01/Lets-Talk-About-It-SELF-HARMLet's Talk About It: SELF-HARMMarch 1 is Self-Injury Awareness Day, a global awareness event meant to bring attention to the reality of self-harm in hopes of helping those who engage in it. On this important awareness day, let’s choose a different path and talk about self-harm: what is it, how do we recognize it, and what do we do when someone we love engages in it?2023-03-01T10:15:00-06:00e1a2ca7d-7da3-4a08-8b01-de777646452ahttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/02/28/Black-History-Month-Conversations-about-Mentorship-with-Local-Community-LeadersBlack History Month: Conversations about Mentorship with Local Community LeadersBorn and raised in Kansas City, Missouri, Montel Evans is a dynamic leader and educator and the principal at Thomas Hart Benton Elementary in the Independence School District. Read our FINAL Black History Month conversation now!2023-02-28T10:18:00-06:0038d298f5-539f-4b86-a80a-721ba7e4cb9dhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/02/27/5-Myths-Of-Foster-Care-Spring-2023-Edition5 Myths Of Foster Care: Spring 2023 EditionWhether you are a current foster parent, considering becoming licensed, or somewhere in between, staying informed and aware of the current trends, myths, and information surrounding foster care is essential. Take a minute to read through these five myths, and feel free to share them with your network.2023-02-27T15:37:00-06:00670f94d7-3d90-428a-a2cd-f33d0decc15chttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/02/22/Black-History-Month-Conversations-about-Mentorship-with-Local-Community-Leaders-Black History Month: Conversations about Mentorship with Local Community Leaders Our next conversation for Black History Month is with Juanice Williams, an Assistant Instructor of Social Work at the University of Missouri.2023-02-22T10:26:00-06:002578998a-fdd1-438b-8c89-fb56f481f776https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/02/14/Black-History-Month-Conversations-about-Mentorship-with-Local-Community-LeadersBlack History Month: Conversations about Mentorship with Local Community LeadersFor Black History Month, Cornerstones of Care asked several Black community leaders in child advocacy to reflect on the idea of mentorship and to share about the role of important individuals in their development as a leader. Our first conversation is with Anthony J. Mondaine, Sr.2023-02-14T15:24:00-06:0076b1e3d3-d736-45b5-b6c6-ab623883f8b6https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/02/03/BIST-Leadership-Conference-Offers-Hope-Camaraderie-and-Vision-for-School-LeadersBIST Leadership Conference Offers Hope, Camaraderie, and Vision for School LeadersIt’s not often that 110 school principals, building leaders, and district leaders will take two days off work to attend a leadership conference – except when that conference offers them something different, even revolutionary, to address the growing needs of students, teachers, and families in their community. 2023-02-03T11:58:00-06:00f87df9e7-a864-4481-968d-9db4bb5b0d54https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/01/30/First-Sanctuary-Circle-Program-of-2023-Takes-a-Look-into-the-FutureFirst Sanctuary Circle Program of 2023 Takes a Look into the FutureThe Sanctuary Circle committee kicked off its first S.E.L.F. event of the year with a focus on the future. The 90-minute hybrid event was open to all Cornerstones of Care employees and began with a presentation by Clinical Manager Anh Dao, who shared about celebrating Tết, the Vietnamese New Year.2023-01-30T14:39:00-06:001e9828ed-ee7c-47e5-8444-61af3e900cb4https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/01/13/The-Hands-and-Feet-of-Jesus-are-Still-Needed-in-Todays-World-YESThe Hands and Feet of Jesus are Still Needed in Today's World! YES!On the holiday commemorating Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., Dr. Yvette Richards has written a blog post honoring Dr. King and his work.2023-01-13T15:26:00-06:00ea5c709a-6b19-4f2e-9f6c-3bc77acdd886https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2023/01/12/2023-Restaurant-Week-Beneficiary-Build-Trybe-Seed-to-Plate-Program2023 Restaurant Week Beneficiary: Build Trybe Seed to Plate ProgramAn inside look at the present and future of a program that provides kids with valuable life skills to grow and cook their own food.2023-01-12T10:08:00-06:00fb107aca-4999-48f8-a2a6-7b9e0b64730bhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2022/12/22/Tis-the-Season-to-Foster-Joy-NASB-North-Pole-Wraps-Up-Year-TwoTis the Season to Foster Joy: NASB North Pole Wraps Up Year TwoIt’s a cold, dreary December afternoon, and Diane is sifting through an assortment of toys, books, and trinkets at the Gift Gallery in Leawood, Kan. || This story is part three of our three-part series to highlight the end-of-year impact of our work at Cornerstones of Care. 2022-12-22T11:41:00-06:0041bf232d-a5ba-4f53-87d0-c8343a273ab6https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2022/12/22/Tis-the-Season-to-Foster-Joy-Natashas-StoryTis the Season to Foster Joy: Natasha's StoryThree years before the 2022 #NationalAdoptionDay event, Natasha’s grandmother, Tracy, began the long and laborious process of filing for adoption. || This story is part two of our three-part series to highlight the end-of-year impact of our work at Cornerstones of Care.2022-12-22T10:54:00-06:004a5d6bdf-7537-4bcd-9a97-7369ff0f8d20https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2022/12/21/Tis-the-Season-to-Foster-Joy-Its-Party-TimeTis the Season to Foster Joy: It's Party TimeOn Saturday, November 19, at Children’s Mercy Park, our Kansas Foster Care Team threw the biggest #NationalAdoptionDay party in Cornerstones of Care history. || This story is part one of our three-part series to highlight the end-of-year impact of our work at Cornerstones of Care.2022-12-21T10:59:00-06:00651a7eec-7f25-45fa-a2ae-f2a616f24c71https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2022/12/20/Cornerstones-of-Care-Announces-Market-Rate-Pay-Increases-in-2023Cornerstones of Care Announces Market Rate Pay Increases in 2023The Cornerstones of Care Board of Directors voted on December 14 to significantly invest in a 2023 compensation package that will make many key positions in the organization’s workforce competitive in the current challenging job market.2022-12-20T00:29:00-06:001f3b0013-b7ca-41c5-8c1c-dbee1752efffhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2022/12/07/250-Children-and-Counting-The-Story-of-Pam-Price-and-Her-Impact-as-a-Treatment-Foster-Care-Parent250 Children and Counting: The Story of Pam Price and Her Impact as a Treatment Foster Care ParentPam Price was very involved in high school activities – from cheerleading to basketball, she kept herself busy in her teenage years. After a school event one night, she remembers seeing a crowd of parents, waiting to drive their sons and daughters home. It was a mundane moment, but it had special significance for Pam, who grew up in a single-parent home. With her parent at work, Pam walked home alone in the dark. It was then that Pam first thought about becoming a foster parent.2022-12-07T14:59:00-06:006257625d-19a7-433d-9538-80c068ab0bf7https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2022/11/09/Building-Relationships-to-Reduce-Child-Runaways-in-MissouriBuilding Relationships to Reduce Child Runaways in MissouriAs part of National Runaway Prevention Month, this story features Justin Springer, a Cornerstones of Care Response Team Coordinator, and his efforts to reduce child runaways in Missouri.2022-11-09T14:19:00-06:002272caae-cb64-4dd0-b2aa-bce93b0d216fhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2022/09/14/Cornerstones-of-Care-Restructures-Its-Executive-Leadership-TeamCornerstones of Care Restructures Its Executive Leadership TeamIn the past two months, the Cornerstones of Care Executive Leadership Team (ELT) added two new members, and three people have been elevated to new positions. 2022-09-14T10:31:00-05:0026df18b4-3e19-4273-beb6-86eaf39b9c63https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2022/06/15/Love-Them-For-Who-They-AreLove Them For Who They AreOn a cruise in 2020, Joshua and Matt discussed what type of family they wanted. Their conversation included fostering, adopting, or having children through a surrogate. The couple, married in 2018, knew they wanted a family; they just weren't sure what form it would take. They made their decision in 2020 when a friend, who is a foster care case manager, mentioned a teenager who identified as LGBTQ+ and had asked to be placed with a same-gender couple. Joshua and Matt were motivated to become foster parents, even though they wouldn't be licensed in time to foster the teen who made the request.2022-06-15T09:54:00-05:00ac92b347-4c5f-4f2d-b408-7dbe9c3667f8https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2022/04/12/Horticulture-Programs-Help-Good-Things-GrowHorticulture Programs Help Good Things GrowCultivating plants is so much more than digging in the dirt. Three of our programs help participants get their hands dirty—and gain knowledge and confidence in the process. And all of these programs are possible thanks in part to our annual plant sale.2022-04-12T11:25:00-05:008b9365c9-c76f-4d04-b2d5-eeb0ae48720fhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2021/11/11/Teens-Need-Caring-Homes-TooTeens Need Caring Homes TooNovember is National Adoption Month, and the need to find caring homes for teens is critical, especially among older children. In 2020, 3,638 children over the age of nine were in Kansas foster care. In Missouri, that number was 8,825. Over the years, we've had foster parents who were convinced they only wanted to work with "the littles" find fostering teens is a rewarding experience. To help interested foster parents consider fostering teens, let's bust a few myths. 2021-11-11T10:40:00-06:00201a221f-bb80-4050-bb49-e8a097c362e1https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2021/10/29/Bring-a-Little-Magic-to-a-Childs-HolidayBring a Little Magic to a Childs HolidayThere are many ways to engage during this holiday season. Whether it be through volunteering your time, purchasing gifts, or making a monetary donation. You can make a significant difference during a season that can be especially difficult for children and families suffering the impacts of trauma. Learn how you can make an impact this holiday season!2021-10-29T09:32:00-05:0077c59d83-324f-4311-96a5-2cf62890ad0fhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2021/10/14/Safety-Starts-HereSafety Starts HereLife can be heavy. When we are not prepared for stressful events, it can feel like the event won. When feeling stressed, we are more vulnerable to react to triggers –memories, experiences, or events that spark an intense emotional reaction regardless of our current mood. Learn more about how we create and implement safety plans as a part of our trauma-informed model.2021-10-14T14:01:00-05:00465903dd-913e-40f9-9e99-059fa9e792d6https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2021/09/28/New-Trauma-Informed-Additions-to-Our-Ozanam-CampusNew Trauma-Informed Additions to Our Ozanam CampusExciting changes are happening on our Ozanam Campus this fall! Our On-Campus Living team has been hard at work creating interactive spaces for our youth, including a new library and redesigned sensory rooms. 2021-09-28T11:50:00-05:00d1b09aca-91cb-4d25-9fbc-a0fbd8f6682dhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2021/09/21/Workshops-Inspire-Confidence-In-SinglesWorkshops Inspire Confidence In SinglesShowMe Healthy Relationships is a 5-year project funded by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Administration for Children and Families. It is a partnership between the University of Missouri Extension, the University of Missouri Department of Human Development and Family Science, and three community family agencies that host the workshops to help single individuals have happy and healthy relationships. Workshops are provided in Missouri's Cass, Clay, Jackson, Johnson, and Platte Counties. 2021-09-21T11:25:00-05:007bddc39a-53e4-4407-9e8d-05bbeb629898https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2021/09/08/Music-Therapy-Helps-Youth-Better-Understand-ThemselvesMusic Therapy Helps Youth Better Understand ThemselvesMusic therapy is part of an expressive therapy program at our Ozanam and Gillis campuses, which also includes movement therapy and art therapy. The three facets of the program give the clients, a term the therapists use for the youth they serve, a choice in following their artistic interests. It also provides therapists insight into the youth they serve through their creativity and offers them an outlet for their emotions.2021-09-08T10:58:00-05:001eb10170-1ae4-4563-9aae-2465dabe5097https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2021/08/25/Cornerstones-of-Care-Celebrates-PRIDECornerstones of Care Celebrates PRIDEIn our ongoing effort to offer support, ally-ship, professional learning and knowledge growth for clients, children and families, we have organized a LGBTQ+ affinity group. This group is led by Dr. Chad Harris, chief development officer, and Sarah Gray, foster care case management manager. It offers a broad range of support for internal and external audiences alike.2021-08-25T09:45:00-05:0076eb1b73-c9ce-4221-bf5f-974834ff9134https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2021/08/09/Four-Back-to-School-Tips-for-Foster-ParentsFour Back-to-School Tips for Foster ParentsAs summer break rolls to a close, students all over the country are gearing up for a new school year. But for youth in foster care, this can be an incredibly different experience. Some youth are going back to their same school for the first time living in a different home. Others have had to switch to a different school, maybe in a new town, where they know no one and may be afraid to be identified as someone in foster care. We asked Angie McKim, who has two school-aged youth in foster care, to give us four tips for foster parents.2021-08-09T12:06:00-05:0048c30f37-9d80-4e10-b564-e5e33bd6673ahttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2021/07/02/4-Trauma-Informed-Principles-in-Action4 Trauma-Informed Principles in ActionAt Cornerstones of Care, we are all about trauma-informed care. Top to bottom, our organization uses trauma-informed principles in the way we care for those we serve and the way we interact with each other. But how do these concepts translate outside of work? We asked our training team members to share some of the ways the trauma-informed concepts they teach every day have worked their way into their personal relationships and home lives.2021-07-02T14:50:00-05:00b0a00e29-c67d-424a-bfd3-605453e7d352https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2021/07/02/When-Foster-Parents-and-Birth-Parents-Partner-Children-BenefitWhen Foster Parents and Birth Parents Partner, Children BenefitThe most effective intervention we can provide children healing from trauma is strong, enduring relationships with caring adults. When foster parents and birth parents partner in the child's best interest, the child hears, "You're lovable; you matter and we care." The desired outcome is reunification and a lasting friendship between families.2021-07-02T14:36:00-05:00f6c82cbc-ed00-4728-9618-b4e763f18e65https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2021/05/24/Separating-Siblings-Can-Intensify-a-Child%E2%80%99s-TraumaSeparating Siblings Can Intensify a Child’s TraumaIn the United States approximately two-thirds of children in foster care have a sibling also in care. When siblings are removed from their home and placed in foster care we make every attempt to keep them together. We understand sibling relationships help children achieve developmental milestones as well as provide emotional support, companionship and comfort in times of change. Separating siblings compounds the grief they feel over separation from their parents and the transition to a new home.2021-05-24T14:25:00-05:008a0c5a48-2b67-4794-b3c5-3038ff3079ffhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2021/05/24/Your-Foster-Parent-Journey-Getting-StartedYour Foster Parent Journey: Getting StartedAs a foster parent, you have the opportunity to help children heal from past trauma by providing a safe and nurturing home. Your guidance and support are invaluable during such a critical time in their lives. But the process of becoming a foster parent can seem daunting–after all, you are bringing a child into your home, so where do you start? How long does it take?2021-05-24T14:21:00-05:005e357863-a94f-41bd-9880-dfff9f631fd8https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2021/04/13/Plants-Can-Teach-Us-A-LotPlants Can Teach Us A LotWe are in full swing for our upcoming ‘Thyme for Kids’ plant sale, a fundraiser for our horticultural therapy and Build Trybe program. The students enrolled in my class help manage a commercial greenhouse, learn to nurture living things, contribute to a team project, and gain a basic understanding of plant science. We have been growing annuals, perennials, herbs, houseplants, and vegetable transplants to sell to the community. "What makes horticulture therapeutic?” I am asked this question often. I believe it varies from individual to individual.2021-04-13T14:44:00-05:00a6a15d4f-ab47-41ce-8ecd-00a92fd03a91https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2021/04/13/Preventing-Child-Abuse-and-Neglect-through-Intensive-In-Home-ServicesPreventing Child Abuse and Neglect through Intensive In-Home ServicesEvery day, an average of 19 youth are removed from their homes in Missouri. The events that lead to a child entering foster care are traumatic enough, but the physical removal from their family compounds that trauma for everyone involved. What if families could get help before things escalated to the point their children need to be removed? Intensive In-Home Services (IIS) are specifically designed to serve families who are experiencing a crisis.2021-04-13T09:18:00-05:00383d59c3-b896-4fc5-b553-3f85e59f4248https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2021/04/08/KeyBank-Volunteers-Remain-Strong-and-Committed-to-our-YouthKeyBank Volunteers Remain Strong and Committed to our YouthVolunteers are at the core of the work we do. This month, we celebrate the many volunteers who have donated their time to the youth and families we serve. One organization that has made a positive impact on the youth we serve is KeyBank of Overland Park.2021-04-08T14:27:00-05:006ecad931-080d-4636-ba8f-5a79126918a9https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2021/03/24/Community-Forum-RecapCommunity Forum RecapThank you to those who joined us yesterday for our virtual Forward, Together! Community Forum. The 30-minute forum was a way for us to thank you for your support in 2020, to celebrate with you on the 150-year milestone of our mission, to inform you on our work ahead in 2021 and invite you to be a part of our healing mission for children and families in 2021. Read our recap blog below to learn more about how you can get involved in 2021!2021-03-24T10:44:00-05:00b4a67222-9c5f-46e3-806f-b4fbe2198ca2https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2021/03/17/COVID-Vaccine-ResourcesCOVID Vaccine ResourcesThe development of the COVID-19 vaccine has undoubtedly left many of use with questions. To guide and help answer those questions, we have compiled a list of credible resources to help our communities learn more about the COVID-19 vaccine.2021-03-17T11:59:00-05:002725375d-950c-46d4-8832-31d924e3bc06https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2021/03/09/Social-Workers-Answer-Why-is-Social-Work-EssentialSocial Workers Answer: Why is Social Work Essential?March is National Social Work Month, a time to shine a light on social workers and the incredible work that they do. From foster care case managers to intensive in-home specialists to licensing workers, they are the true unsung heroes of our organization. Rather than try and explain why social work is so important, we decided to have some of our team members explain why social workers are essential, and why they decided to take up the mantle of social work. 2021-03-09T12:52:00-06:009b462e3a-d015-4d50-bb93-aeacc5f2d5c4https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2021/03/09/From-Foster-Care-to-a-Career-in-Foster-Care-A-Story-of-Resilience-From Foster Care to a Career in Foster Care: A Story of Resilience Youth in foster care often hear again and again, “I don’t want you. I don’t want you. I don’t want you.” Rejection is a key component of experienced trauma. Despite the odds, some exhibit remarkable resilience. Resilience is the process of adapting well in the face of adversity, trauma, tragic threats, or significant stress. Cornerstones of Care team member Makaila's story is one of forgiveness, acceptance and extraordinary resilience.2021-03-09T09:07:00-06:00fdc091d5-509b-431d-9844-da84fe6ca233https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2021/02/22/Why-We-Celebrate-Black-History-MonthWhy We Celebrate Black History MonthMany people often ask why we continue to celebrate Black History Month, especially in a society where we have elected the first Black President, and more recently the first Black Vice President of the United States. However, I think it’s important to remind ourselves why. Why do we continue to celebrate Black History Month?2021-02-22T11:48:00-06:0090f51601-a094-48d8-a816-13e8143cb311https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2021/01/26/Help-Stop-Human-TraffickingHelp Stop Human TraffickingJanuary is National Human Trafficking Prevention Month. Children, especially those who are abused or neglected in their own homes, are especially at risk of becoming one of the 20 million+ people trafficked worldwide for labor or sex. The average age of a child exploited through sex trafficking is 14 or 15. Continue reading to learn the statistics around Human Trafficking, how we are fighting against human trafficking and what you can do to help.2021-01-26T10:44:00-06:009636e7cf-295e-4059-b7da-73d790483bf6https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2021/01/22/Team-Spotlight-CharCarol-FisherTeam Spotlight: CharCarol FisherCharCarol Fisher is the program manager for expressive arts/combat on our Ozanam Campus. She plays Jazz as a hobby and volunteers as an instructor at the American Jazz Museum. CharCarol loves collecting vintage records, enjoys gardening and participating in community music programs for youth.2021-01-22T14:45:00-06:00328e7c60-f889-476d-9aed-526deed2a9adhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2020/12/17/10-Ways-to-Cope-with-Holiday-Anxiety10 Ways to Cope with Holiday AnxietyThe holiday season can be stressful during a good year. Throw in a global pandemic, and things are likely to get even more tension-inducing. Mayo Clinic has identified ten ways to combat stress, avoid isolation and plan ahead as we head toward the holidays.2020-12-17T10:41:00-06:00723bfb93-727f-4cb1-9309-e2d3f5cc1c0fhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2020/11/24/A-Child%E2%80%99s-First-Night-in-Your-Home-What-to-Know--ConsiderA Child’s First Night in Your Home: What to Know & ConsiderIn all relationships, each person brings their own habits, culture, values and traditions to the home. The same is true for children who will be joining your family through foster care or adoption. Learn more about what to expect during their first days in your home.2020-11-24T13:21:00-06:007a2870ff-6f22-4972-a637-45c051e0d10fhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2020/11/09/Families-in-Crisis-Abuse-vs-NeglectFamilies in Crisis: Abuse vs. NeglectChildren are removed from their homes and placed into foster care because families are going through a crisis, resulting in an unsafe home, abuse or neglect. Abuse is the intentional infliction of harm, whether it is physical, emotional, or sexual harm. Neglect is the failure to provide the necessary care for an individual, resulting in that individual's injury or illness. 2020-11-09T10:42:00-06:0031fb3917-ddd9-42b4-bde6-51dff33ed76chttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2020/10/27/Caring-for-Kids-and-Creating-Families-Central-MissouriCaring for Kids and Creating Families Central MissouriOur Central Missouri team is growing! Through our partnership with the Missouri Alliance for Children and Families (MCAF), we are pleased to announce the expansion of our Foster Care Case Management (FCCM) program to now include Columbia and Jefferson City.2020-10-27T14:43:00-05:007360446e-c9c9-4ec7-97b5-3cd33132806dhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2020/10/09/Building-Blocks-for-Success-Family-First-Prevention-Services-ActBuilding Blocks for Success: Family First Prevention Services ActThe Family First Prevention Services Act (FFPSA) of 2018 enacted funding for time-limited prevention services for mental health, substance abuse and in-home parent skill-based programs for children or youth, providing more resources to help families in crisis stay together.2020-10-09T13:35:00-05:00317655b7-30a0-4e26-8b68-12689d2669bahttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2020/09/29/Team-Member-Spotlight---Brian-RhodesTeam Member Spotlight - Brian RhodesBrian Rhodes is a program manager overseeing team members who look after the youth in our residential treatment program on our Gillis Campus. When he isn’t working, Brian enjoys relaxing at home with his family.2020-09-29T12:03:00-05:0020c169b9-643c-4f44-9598-b5fb67887f0chttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2020/09/11/Team-Member-Spotlight---Dr-Lanette-MadisonTeam Member Spotlight - Dr. Lanette MadisonDr. Lanette R. Madison is the Eastern Missouri Regional Director and works in the St. Louis community. She firmly believes that, “your thoughts create your destiny and with God, all things are possible”. She is a proud mother of two children whom she adores; a 27-year-old son who is an Engineering Technician III at Black and Veatch and a 19-year-old daughter who is a theatre major at Abilene Christian University.2020-09-11T16:20:00-05:0037691e30-440c-4fdf-b51c-fb329df92358https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2020/09/08/Day-Treatment-Team-Rises-to-the-ChallengeDay Treatment Team Rises to the ChallengeWorldwide educators are rising to the challenge to provide a safe and effective learning environment. While it’s not easy navigating what that looks like, our day treatment program team is committed to using a trauma-informed approach and quickly adapted to a virtual learning. They are going above and beyond to meet the needs of students, while providing wrap around services for their families. 2020-09-08T10:58:00-05:001ce94a4a-804b-4342-b9de-c5dacba36328https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2020/08/20/Freeze-Flight--Fight-What-does-it-meanFreeze, Flight & Fight: What does it mean?Have you ever been so embarrassed, scared, or angry by a situation that you just wanted to “disappear” or “fly away”? Our brains are wired for survival. When we experience strong emotions, our brain sends the signals to get through with the situation by “freezing”, “flying (running away)” and/or “fighting”. 2020-08-20T09:42:00-05:00cdcaf452-0241-4494-8fd1-9914cfef2649https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2020/07/20/Team-Member-Spotlight---Shelli-WalrodTeam Member Spotlight - Shelli WalrodShelli Walrod is a family preservation program director at our Pittsburg, KS location. Her team works tirelessly keeping children safe and families together. Learn more about her work and what inspires her to continue her work in helping children and families. 2020-07-20T13:11:00-05:009b121d58-5861-46ef-aef9-65a1a9d899eehttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2020/06/19/An-Expanded-Look-at-Adverse-Childhood-Experience-ACE-StudiesAn Expanded Look at Adverse Childhood Experience (ACE) StudiesA study conducted by Kaiser Permanente in 1998 looked at how adverse childhood experiences, also known as ACEs, were linked to adult mental health and wellbeing. Today, we use these ground-breaking results in our trauma-informed practices to help build resiliency with youth in foster care and beyond.2020-06-19T14:40:00-05:00c99bfe97-cb4d-4c76-8364-95c4951a8a23https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2020/05/20/Stressed-at-Home-Parenting-Tips-from-Professional-EducatorsStressed at Home? Parenting Tips from Professional EducatorsBeing stuck at home as a family can be stressful. Even though you love each other immensely, having to reconfigure your whole life, including working from home and helping facilitate schooling for your children is draining and messy. Our Behavioral Intervention Support Team has pulled together some principles we give to teachers all over the country to help with classroom management during high-stress situations.2020-05-20T12:36:00-05:00b4d6f41d-abea-46a8-86d7-60cdc25e80b4https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2020/04/11/8-Helpful-Coping-Practices-During-COVID-198 Helpful Coping Practices During COVID-19As we strive to reduce the spread of COVID-19, many suddenly find ourselves working from home without our normal routine and scrambling to get back some sense of normalcy. Our trauma-informed team pulled together some helpful tips for establishing a routine and developing coping strategies to stay physically and mentally healthy during this disorienting time.2020-04-11T12:53:00-05:0002865af9-99c7-49ce-81d6-3db50f238dddhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2020/03/23/Stuck-at-Home-Resources-to-Keep-Kids-BusyStuck at Home? Resources to Keep Kids BusyWhile we are all trying to do our part to practice social distancing in response to the COVID-19 outbreak, many parents and foster parents now find themselves at home with children who were previously in school or childcare. Here are some constructive enrichment activities you can do with your kids.2020-03-23T15:59:00-05:00eaf5e1fa-2601-4b95-b393-a7d1df1e7482https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2020/03/12/How-to-Talk-to-Kids-About-Traumatic-Events-in-the-NewsHow to Talk to Kids About Traumatic Events in the NewsIt’s hard to know how to talk to kids about frightening or traumatic events in the news. Between the coverage of wars, pandemics, political uncertainty, neighborhood violence, where do we even start? Thankfully, the National Center for Traumatic Stress Network has outlines some best practices.2020-03-12T18:00:00-05:00cda4b972-87b2-4152-bd90-6d9c12dab11bhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2020/03/10/Staff-Spotlight-%E2%80%94-Melissa-DiddleStaff Spotlight — Melissa DiddleMelissa Diddle is one of our lead intensive in-home service (IIS) specialists. She and her team work hard to help families who are struggling to acquire the skills they need to parent successfully. An avid kayaker, Melissa loves to spend as much time in the water as she can when she’s not working.2020-03-10T12:56:00-05:00f3ed5cd2-581c-4d40-9243-005b19f19713https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2020/02/28/10-Ways-We-Experience-Dignity10 Ways We Experience DignityWe are dedicated to making sure all of the children, families and staff we work with are treated with dignity and affirming who they are as individuals. However, if we are not aware of the ways people experience that dignity, we are liable to violate it, even if unconsciously so. Check out this list by Donna Hicks from Harvard University outlining the fundamental ways we experience dignity and the principles we all should adhere to when seeking to affirm that dignity in others.2020-02-28T12:46:00-06:00b8c09517-642f-48cf-b46b-40cac2b78132https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2020/01/27/Finding-Mental-ClarityFinding Mental ClarityMindfulness — the practice of being present in the moment instead of rehashing the past or imagining the future — has many great health benefits. But it can be a challenge to achieve in our fast-paced world of multi-tasking. One way to practice mindfulness is by using your senses to explore the world around you. Learn how you can do this every day with a simple pause at mealtime.2020-01-27T15:38:00-06:00733092c4-a8b4-4823-993e-720b5058ad23https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/10/21/Parents-Be-Compassionate-To-YourselfParents: Be Compassionate To YourselfWith the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, everyday stress and the never-ending to-do lists can be overwhelming. Under this pressure, instead of being compassionate to ourselves like we are to others, we often become our own worst critics. Mastering self-compassion is a wonderful way to gain control of your day and reduce stress.2019-10-21T13:14:00-05:002773db87-82bf-4ea0-876e-801e6b8f3df1https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/09/10/Staff-Spotlight-%E2%80%94-Justin-SpringerStaff Spotlight — Justin SpringerJustin Springer is one of our amazing foster care case managers. When he’s not at work, Justin is a year-round griller (according to him “there is no grilling season”) and he grills some mean ribs. He’s also busy wrangling his own three children at home along with his wife, Anna. 2019-09-10T15:11:00-05:00d137ffaf-de3b-49b6-b587-b0a21a06062dhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/08/28/Now-Serving-the-Whole-ChildNow Serving the Whole ChildWhat if there was a place where youth and young adults ages 0-24 could receive all of their physical, dental and behavioral healthcare under one roof, regardless of their insurance or Medicaid status? A place that was welcoming, trauma-informed and put patients at ease. Now there is.2019-08-28T14:44:00-05:00b99497f3-e5b9-4f82-848a-a27653ac4632https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/07/30/Staff-Spotlight---Darcy-MaherStaff Spotlight - Darcy MaherAs a treatment foster care therapist, Darcy Maher helps others process and understand their trauma. Because of this, she knows firsthand the benefits of self-care and can help the youth and families in our care with this as well. We asked Darcy a few questions about the work that she does and the reasons she does it.2019-07-30T13:43:00-05:00b46212c3-4452-4522-8209-5c88f59dc00ahttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/07/09/We-Received-the-School-of-Excellence-AwardWe Received the School of Excellence AwardThe National Association of Special Education Teachers recently honored our therapeutic day treatment school with their School of Excellence Award. Pam Sanders, the school's director of education, shares what the award means to her as an administrator.2019-07-09T11:53:00-05:0077ffdca4-17e7-48cb-b493-63cd444368c4https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/07/08/Food-Service-Staff-Honored-with-Excellence-AwardFood Service Staff Honored with Excellence AwardKey players in the safety and health of children on our campuses, our food service staff provide lovingly prepared meals and a welcoming environment to those who have experienced trauma. Recently, they were received the 2019 Food Safety Excellence Award for "substantially exceeding the standards of the food code."2019-07-08T19:29:00-05:0073a5f9a5-70be-4323-9ec4-8c6a0c80bc8dhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/07/08/Hoping-For-Their-FutureHoping For Their FutureA new mentor shares her story and the age-old hopes and dreams for her mentee that any caregiver can relate to.2019-07-08T11:41:00-05:00605343bb-a9a6-40c4-950d-14c8ae1b8b23https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/06/25/Staff-Spotlight---Mockia-%E2%80%9CNikki%E2%80%9D-SheltonStaff Spotlight - Mockia “Nikki” SheltonMockia “Nikki” Shelton is one of our family resource development specialists in St. Louis. A self-described “extrovert”, Nikki loves social gatherings and speaking about her passion of working with children and families. We asked her a few questions about the work that she does and the reasons she does it.2019-06-25T15:06:00-05:0078de4d48-28ab-4ca6-b804-e11890317780https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/06/18/Ismert-Family-StoryIsmert Family StoryWhen George and Traci Ismert couldn't have children of their own, they began volunteering at Cornerstones of Care and later became mentors. Now, they help our youth navigate the ups and downs of life and have even started a fundraiser for us.2019-06-18T12:01:00-05:007900b657-7fb6-4f32-b636-4a2ce4de0bbbhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/05/28/Horton-Named-Executive-Director-of-Missouri-ProgramsHorton Named Executive Director of Missouri ProgramsJustin Horton has been named Cornerstones of Care's executive director of Missouri programs and services, responsible for providing strategic, executive-level leadership to strengthen existing programs and grow new partnerships throughout the state.2019-05-28T16:53:00-05:008f8caa68-a4e6-456e-ba53-38d27923fa93https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/05/13/5-Ways-YOU-Can-Support-Foster-Families5 Ways YOU Can Support Foster FamiliesBeing a foster parent is important, difficult work. Those who open their homes and hearts to children in state custody are not superhuman and need a network of support alongside them. Even if you’re not yet a foster parent, you can support those on the front lines of foster care.2019-05-13T15:02:00-05:005d6c8427-2343-4656-9735-c41120eae457https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/05/02/Local-University-Becomes-Strong-AdvocateLocal University Becomes Strong AdvocateWhen we opened our doors in Maryville, Mo., our focus was finding foster care homes for children in the area. During this time, our relationship with Northwest Missouri State University blossomed and they have since become one of our strongest advocates in the area.2019-05-02T14:34:00-05:00348bde01-90f1-4d75-a34e-e15e9bed9cb9https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/04/15/From-Foster-Parent-to-MentorFrom Foster Parent to MentorA former mentor turned foster parent, Ray Fuller began mentoring again at age 72 to stay connected with today's children.2019-04-15T12:30:00-05:0050915a97-8542-4be6-a84b-625b09ee8bedhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/04/08/3-Ways-to-Make-Your-Home-Trauma-Informed3 Ways to Make Your Home Trauma-InformedWe all want our home to be warm and welcoming; however, for friends and family who have experienced trauma, environmental factors can either trigger intense emotional pain or be instrumental in their healing journey. Being intentional about the physical and emotional manner of your home makes a significant impact on helping guests feel comfortable. Here are 3 quick and easy ways to make your home trauma-informed.2019-04-08T16:45:00-05:00658060e2-00b6-459a-83b8-864606240896https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/04/01/Staff-Spotlight---DeeDee-ConradStaff Spotlight - DeeDee ConradOver the past 21 years, DeeDee Conrad has worked with just about every age group we serve in residential care as a youth youth behavioral health specialist. Learn about her work and what keeps her going. 2019-04-01T15:41:00-05:007debf3b0-6a09-461f-9b27-c20a40ebee37https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/03/11/Advancing-Safety-and-Health-in-Kansas-CityAdvancing Safety and Health in Kansas CityIn Missouri's eastern Jackson County, 9.81% of the population is uninsured. In fact, in all of Jackson County, there is only one primary care physician for every 1,310 residents. Lack of access to healthcare causes children and young adults to miss out on basic preventative care. We're trying to change that.2019-03-11T15:31:00-05:00b5bbbdd8-b5c8-43c5-b14f-f6732d354850https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/03/08/A-Portrait-of-GenerosityA Portrait of GenerosityWhen Jack turned 9, he and his family took part in a "9 acts of kindness" challenge. As one of his acts, Jack spent some of his birthday money to buy birthday gifts for our youth in foster care. This simple act of kindness garnered media attention as Jack continued to share what he had with others.2019-03-08T16:14:00-06:00319063a6-7766-4d7e-be65-f51ce86c6f72https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/02/18/Screening-for-Success-Developing-a-New-Tool-to-Address-TraumaScreening for Success: Developing a New Tool to Address TraumaEvery youth who enters foster care shares one common thread - the trauma of being removed from their homes and separated from their families. In 2018, Washington University conducted a needs assessment for our treatment foster care program. Based on their assessment, we are now collaborating with them to develop a screening tool to be used before placing a child in a treatment foster care home.2019-02-18T15:31:00-06:00ca85d5a2-4a54-4baf-be6f-fa545794003bhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/01/31/Rozell-Named-Executive-Director-of-Kansas-ProgramsRozell Named Executive Director of Kansas ProgramsDonna Rozell has been named Cornerstones of Care's executive director of Kansas programs and services, responsible for providing strategic, executive-level leadership to strengthen existing programs and grow new partnerships throughout the state.2019-01-31T16:33:00-06:00d41e4a73-83af-4784-80fa-477b2270d361https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/01/24/Staff-Spotlight---Nakia-WinstonStaff Spotlight - Nakia WinstonNakia Winston works in our St. Louis office placing children in loving treatment foster homes. Learn about her work, the need for foster parents, and what keeps her going. 2019-01-24T11:02:00-06:009904eeab-7137-4182-a322-e565b5dbba23https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/01/17/Human-Trafficking-Q--A-Misconceptions-Signs-and-How-to-HelpHuman Trafficking Q & A: Misconceptions, Signs and How to HelpKim Case has spent the last decade working alongside law enforcement, legislature, court personnel and advocate partners fighting for the rights of human trafficking survivors. We asked Kim what she wished everyone knew about human trafficking. Read what she said. 2019-01-17T09:42:00-06:00330dc4b1-774f-473b-bb7d-8dd67d3d1187https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/01/09/Music-Therapy-SuccessMusic Therapy SuccessOur music therapy interns were recently selected out of hundreds of submissions to present on historic research at the American Music Therapy Association's national conference!2019-01-09T16:45:00-06:00c9923c62-10e9-4e85-9ca4-5947dabe87behttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2019/01/07/4-Easy-Ways-to-Help-End-Human-Trafficking4 Easy Ways to Help End Human TraffickingJanuary is National Human Trafficking Prevention Month. Children, especially those who are abused or neglected, are especially at risk of becoming one of the 20 to 27 million trafficked worldwide for labor or sex. Learn what you can do about it.2019-01-07T12:04:00-06:001d6e61bd-bf71-4dde-9f15-2ba20c88e1ebhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/12/20/When-a-Community-Comes-Together-Gift-Gallery-2018When a Community Comes Together: Gift Gallery 2018The 2018 Gift Gallery was an incredible experience thanks to generous donations from individuals and corporate partners and volunteers from community partners. Here are just a few of the special moments from the Gift Gallery shared by families and volunteers.2018-12-20T14:25:00-06:0047c67158-86d6-4b70-af92-1331f1a30b28https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/12/10/Why-Mentoring-MattersWhy Mentoring MattersMany of the youth waiting for a mentor rarely have visitors or leave campus. They long for a friend who is theirs and theirs alone. As Coleen soon learned, becoming a mentor is a very real opportunity to not only change the life of a child, but to have yours changed as well.2018-12-10T14:46:00-06:00d4e82e4a-db89-4d4a-8f31-4217595f3197https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/11/12/Staff-Spotlight---Lauren-CollinsStaff Spotlight - Lauren CollinsLauren Collins oversees our 22-unit Pathways transitional living apartment building for youth aged 16-22 in Wichita, Kan. Learn more about her history, experience and what drives her passion.2018-11-12T15:42:00-06:009f7881de-1cbe-4f23-bf3e-3028a9bca01bhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/10/15/Meet-the-Therapist-Jessica-AllenMeet the Therapist: Jessica AllenWe asked Jessica Allen, one of our therapists in St. Louis, about what led her to the field, the work that she does and what she wished the community understood about the children and families we work with every day. This is what she said.2018-10-15T15:28:00-05:007a63fd17-d8c6-4536-9724-c2eaa1d3d67chttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/09/24/BIST-From-Defiant-to-Most-ImprovedBIST: From Defiant to Most ImprovedTeachers at Turner Middle School use the Behavior Intervention Support Team (BIST) model to help students overcome emotional and behavioral difficulties through grace, responsibility and accountability. Here's one of their experiences.2018-09-24T14:30:00-05:006b5b7ced-0796-46cf-9a59-6bf715708a3chttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/08/14/Inspiring-Foster-Care-Glow-UpsInspiring Foster Care Glow-Ups#Glowup has taken over social media. People are telling the stories of how they overcame childhood adversity (or just bad school photos) and blossomed into the people they are today. Here are some inspiring #glowup stories of people you may not have known were in foster care.2018-08-14T11:58:00-05:00722120e7-352a-4a2a-9368-9d60b059dc72https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/07/31/Helping-Children-Find-Loving-HomesHelping Children Find Loving HomesOur home finding staff have been knocking it out of the park during the month of July and throughout 2018. Check out some of their stats!2018-07-31T16:32:00-05:0013ddf0dc-edbb-4b9f-9890-682f5bbc775ahttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/07/09/Put-Your-Money-Where-Your-Heart-IsPut Your Money Where Your Heart IsDid you know whatever your passion, you can match your financial gifts to that need, program or community? By telling us what you care about most, we'll be able to align your gift directly to the program closest to your heart.2018-07-09T15:45:00-05:00ddf800af-e592-4b89-b213-6558ed133f5fhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/06/14/Running-for-ResilienceRunning for ResilienceWe all know exercise is good for the mind and soul. Our Running Clubs help students grow their confidence and increase their resilience. Learn how in their own words.2018-06-14T09:49:00-05:002d27e45d-23b2-4086-9f6f-ae2532b0a621https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/05/31/Harris-Named-Chief-Development-OfficerHarris Named Chief Development OfficerChad Harris has been named Cornerstones of Care's chief development officer responsible for planning, directing and coordinating all major fundraising activities for the organization, including the upcoming Chiefs Charity Game at Arrowhead Stadium.2018-05-31T16:12:00-05:007b1f6ffe-0801-430e-a195-43d0a8766724https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/05/31/Become-a-Chiefs-Charity-Game-Fundraiser-in-Less-than-2-MinutesBecome a Chiefs Charity Game Fundraiser in Less than 2 MinutesLearn how you can quickly (and easily) join us in raising money for our children and families!2018-05-31T14:40:00-05:00197e7998-d596-47e6-b17f-4ece5232ff7dhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/05/15/A-Letter-From-Farmer-TheoA Letter From Farmer TheoTheo Bunch leads our Build Trybe team, teaching our students the practical skills of tending to plants while also being a mentor and role model to them. Here's a beautiful letter he wrote about a typical day on the farm site at our Gillis Campus.2018-05-15T10:29:00-05:006d406c59-ef76-46a6-a0ea-5f84e3190843https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/05/10/Have-Questions-About-Reunification-Our-Expert-Has-AnswersHave Questions About Reunification? Our Expert Has Answers.In honor of Foster Care Awareness Month, we’ve asked our experts to share one thing they’d like our community to better understand about foster care. In this post, we take a look at reunification.2018-05-10T15:09:00-05:0074dd76f3-cd62-4595-b31b-d7d615d8f674https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/04/11/Do-Opposites-Really-AttractDo Opposites Really Attract?Do opposites really attract in a romantic relationship? The answer might be yes initially, but that often can change over time. Learn why.2018-04-11T13:51:00-05:00ffa5e616-bbb1-4ad9-9146-6ead0c72a48chttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/04/06/Why-We-Need-Treatment-Foster-Care-ParentsWhy We Need Treatment Foster Care ParentsWhat sets treatment foster care apart from all the other types of foster care? Do we really need treatment foster care parents? Yes, we do.2018-04-06T16:57:00-05:00c6c138e7-29c4-4d5c-93ff-190ff4290631https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/03/28/3-Ways-to-Score-Chiefs-Tickets-and-Do-Some-Good3 Ways to Score Chiefs Tickets and Do Some GoodHave you ever dreamed of being a member of #ChiefsKingdom? Here's your chance! Cheer on the Chiefs and help out children and families in your community. Learn how!2018-03-28T10:10:00-05:008f57e6c1-09c1-45c4-bcc8-f2312aff8557https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/03/21/BIST-The-Power-of-ContributionBIST: The Power of ContributionGuest Bloggers Kim Bishop & Tammy Zumalt at Santa Fe Elementary in Waverly, Mo., share a success story of our BIST (Behavioral Intervention Support Team) program.2018-03-21T16:34:00-05:00c44d70cb-93ea-49ba-9b9d-0c32fdcacd05https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/03/12/Taking-the-Show-on-the-RoadTaking the Show on the RoadOur staff recently presented a 90-minute workshop entitled “Space and Grace: Creating a Sustainable Organization through Self-Care and Self-Compassion” at the Alliance Senior Leadership Conference in New Orleans. Learn why it is such an important topic to have in our daily lives.2018-03-12T16:30:00-05:00dad88c76-6b60-4955-aabd-78382d43967ahttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/03/01/ACEs-What-Are-They-and-How-Do-They-Affect-UsACEs: What Are They and How Do They Affect Us?Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) are negative stress-inducing circumstances children experience that shape the way they process and interact with the world around them. The simple series of questions about one's childhood can predict the likelihood of a series of health difficulties later in life. Resilient KC even conducted an ACE Study in our very own backyard and the results were staggering.2018-03-01T16:27:00-06:00d9b0e5c9-dfe8-4805-86ed-a23670484bf2https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/02/14/The-Impact-of-BISTThe Impact of BISTAdministrators and educators from Missouri, Kansas, Nebraska and Illinois gathered for training from our Behavioral Intervention Support Team staff in January to learn about the program and hear success stories from participating schools.2018-02-14T14:03:00-06:0081774a89-3d7c-4342-9b40-73ca1c07f908https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/02/06/A-Simple-Way-to-Support-Trauma-Informed-CareA Simple Way to Support Trauma-Informed CareWhen children don't have the opportunity to heal from the trauma they've experienced, the unaddressed effects are enormous. Trauma affects a child's brain development. Their subsequent emotional and educational challenges can threaten their potential as a productive adult and they are at risk to experience major medical health issues. The Trauma-Informed Care for Children and Families Act seeks to identify children who have experienced trauma and provide immediate support.2018-02-06T12:29:00-06:000d6d001c-17ac-417e-a96d-bf195befc72fhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/01/17/3-Tips-to-Save-Your-Relationship-from-Conflict3 Tips to Save Your Relationship from ConflictEvery relationship has conflict - that's normal. Our free ShowMe Healthy Relationships classes helps couples communicate and understand each other better to successfully deal with conflict when it arises.2018-01-17T09:02:00-06:006d49469e-c4ff-4324-9c89-6ec77405f828https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2018/01/08/Experiencing-the-Meaning-of-the-SeasonExperiencing the Meaning of the SeasonThe Cornerstones of Care Gift Gallery – a long-standing tradition on our Gillis Campus – allows parents we serve to shop for gifts for their entire family at no cost. This year, its legancy continued as 1,304 gifts, plus items to meet basic needs (coats, hats, clothing, diapers, etc.), were distributed to 564 individuals from 178 families. Kiara and her five children were one of those families.2018-01-08T13:52:00-06:00b3e755b3-d33c-4bd2-a3ef-75bc00f1d82dhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/12/05/The-Real-Meaning-Behind-the-SeasonThe Real Meaning Behind the SeasonWhile you enjoy all the sights, sounds, and festivities of the most wonderful time of the year, don't forget the real meaning behind the season - helping others. Experience the joy that only comes from sharing it with others.2017-12-05T13:22:00-06:005ce3df70-6a3e-4f7c-92f3-b916c8e7d2dehttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/11/16/A-Letter-From-a-Teen-Girl-in-Foster-CareA Letter From a Teen Girl in Foster Care"I have been waiting for a family for a long time and if I can have a family I will be the happiest kid in the world. I love the people here but I think I am ready to start a new chapter of my life." Read one letter from a 14-year-old girl in foster care to her potential and future foster and adoptive family. 2017-11-16T08:22:00-06:002ac16975-0d4d-4651-85c0-13fb3041dda9https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/11/09/Behind-the-Scenes-Holiday-EditionBehind the Scenes: Holiday EditionAs the holidays approach, our Donor Relations Specialist Kristen Zucht provides some insight on what it is to be a professional elf.2017-11-09T20:23:00-06:00b008f54e-6904-417f-a2de-acdc25e3cd8bhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/11/02/Re-enacting-Conflict-in-the-Trauma-TriangleRe-enacting Conflict in the Trauma TriangleAny time we enter into conflict, there are three common roles – each with manipulative behaviors – that we often quickly fall into. When practicing trauma-informed care, we call these roles the Trauma Re-enactment Triangle. Learn about the roles, and how you can escape the trauma triangle.2017-11-02T16:22:00-05:009773f9f8-1938-47ba-b39d-a373a0de8b21https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/10/26/Legacy-Events-Come-Together-for-Cornerstones-of-Care-GalaLegacy Events Come Together for Cornerstones of Care GalaWe are hosting the Cornerstones of Care Gala on November 18, 2017. Join us for a magical evening that builds on the legacies of past events!2017-10-26T09:15:00-05:003c52ea18-ccd5-48f4-b9b9-7caecd3e6945https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/10/19/First-Night-In-a-New-Foster-HomeFirst Night In a New Foster HomeFor youth in foster care, the first night in a new home can leave them feeling lonely and full of uncertainty. Current and former foster youth, shared with us the top five things they think about when meeting their foster parents for the first time.2017-10-19T11:52:00-05:00a0d2212c-d610-401c-93e1-667f5248427chttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/10/02/Self-Compassion-What-it-Is-and-Why-it-MattersSelf-Compassion: What it Is and Why it MattersPracticing self-compassion and self-care doesn't make you selfish. It might just be what helps to change the world. Think we're over exaggerating? Read on to learn about the importance of practicing self love. 2017-10-02T12:04:00-05:009de90936-80eb-4737-adf5-7fca91fc537fhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/09/28/Its-Okay-to-Grieve-Foster-Parents--ReunificationIt's Okay to Grieve: Foster Parents & ReunificationRead one honest letter from a foster parent about building relationships with biological families and the work involved toward reunification. 2017-09-28T13:23:00-05:00fded398f-fe9d-4b53-9edc-6a748420024ehttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/09/21/Six-Common-Foster-Care-MythsSix Common Foster Care MythsMaking the decision to open your home to youth in foster care isn't easy, and it isn't made any easier when you hear some of the misperceptions about foster care that can be found on the internet. Learn about the truth about the six most common myths about foster care.2017-09-21T09:31:00-05:0095778ceb-c4cb-4aa5-89e6-336b85a910cbhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/09/06/How-to-Be-a-Great-Parent-in-a-Co-Parent-RelationshipHow to Be a Great Parent in a Co-Parent RelationshipThe key to successful co-parenting is to separate personal feelings from the co-parenting relationship. Having both parents play an active role in their children’s daily lives is the best way to ensure your child’s needs are met. For the sake of your child’s well-being, follow these guidelines. 2017-09-06T10:30:00-05:004b519021-2d0c-4b32-a002-9544c2a64cf3https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/08/30/Teaching-Emotional-Management-at-HomeTeaching Emotional Management at HomeDo you remember a time when your emotions got the best of you? Social emotional learning is comprised of the skills we use to recognize and manage our own emotions as well as recognize emotions in others. There are may ways to help teach children these skills, including the Emotion Color Wheel.2017-08-30T17:41:00-05:0069c31c73-feb9-4ad4-9e3c-51902e8bec0dhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/08/24/Unprepared-Loss-An-Open-Letter-from-a-Former-Foster-ParentUnprepared Loss: An Open Letter from a Former Foster ParentKristy was a foster parent for four years before adopting her two children in 2016. Now using her first-hand knowledge and passion for youth in foster care, Kristy works as a family recruitment specialist at Cornerstones of Care. She shares her experience to help other foster parents acknowledge, prepare for and heal from the loss that can come with fostering.2017-08-24T10:28:00-05:00904c2017-8f94-48ab-ae69-a53562d2308bhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/08/18/Mentors-Make-a-DifferenceMentors Make a DifferenceDo you remember a person - maybe it was a teacher, a coach, or even a supervisor - who listened, gave you advice, and helped you navigate the world around you? For many of the youth we serve, the answer is "no" because they haven't had trusting relationships with adults. Our mentoring program is trying to change that.2017-08-18T14:41:00-05:00b75bdc51-c887-4909-9772-96bc1585075chttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/08/10/How-to-Talk-to-Your-Child-or-Teen-About-Going-to-TherapyHow to Talk to Your Child or Teen About Going to TherapyIt’s very common for children or adolescents to see a therapist, and talking to your child before their first therapy session can help them understand what to expect. Two of our experts on staff helped us put together some guidelines for talking to your child or teen about going to therapy.2017-08-10T15:02:00-05:00138d10d5-3ea5-46c5-bfab-45ddcb7dd588https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/08/04/Wilson-Recognized-for-Community-ServiceWilson Recognized for Community ServiceLisa Wilson, our ShowMe Healthy Relationships program manager, has been a part of our for three years. Recently, she was awarded the Community Service Award from The Dialogue Institute. 2017-08-04T16:07:00-05:0081f9c832-d241-4c16-b144-6adec0a54ee7https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/08/03/Now-We%E2%80%99re-Cooking-[Saut%C3%A9ed-Kale--Bacon-Recipe]Now We’re Cooking! [Sautéed Kale + Bacon Recipe]As part of our Build Trybe program, youth learn to grow and prepare fruits and vegetables, and are empowered to share the food and lessons with their families and neighbors. Last week, they had the opportunity to harvest, prepare and taste something new – kale! You, too, can try your hand and recreate their recipe at home!2017-08-03T17:23:00-05:006e9180bc-4f52-4e1d-a1e1-9e02b6b3d4b7https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/07/28/5-Things-You-Can-Do-to-Take-Action-Against-Human-Trafficking5 Things You Can Do to Take Action Against Human TraffickingThere are 20.9 million victims of human trafficking worldwide - mo matter where you live, work or play, it’s happening in your area. Raising awareness is crucial. If we stand together, we can put an end to human trafficking in our communities. Here are five things you can do to take action against human trafficking.2017-07-28T16:44:00-05:00e2d0ad5e-11cc-4d1c-8012-0ad34c16ef7dhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/07/20/Life-with-Siblings-Those-First-Few-DaysLife with Siblings: Those First Few DaysA foster mom who has had 16 placements in her home shares her experience to help others learn more about becoming foster parents, especially to sibling groups.2017-07-20T08:14:00-05:008613fd95-d517-44bb-8b17-4c8a22b405c6https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/07/14/4-Myths-About-Going-to-Therapy4 Myths About Going to TherapyMental health challenges affect 1 in 5 adults and 1 in 4 youth between the ages of 13-18. Unfortunately, the stigma surrounding mental illness often prevents people from getting help. It’s time to stop the stigmas. Here are four common myths about going to therapy.2017-07-14T11:24:00-05:00efb52713-6721-45be-b7dc-ba6511c7a693https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/07/06/6-Tips-from-Foster-Youth-on-What-Makes-a-Good-Foster-Parent6 Tips from Foster Youth on What Makes a Good Foster ParentWhat does it take to be a good foster parent? We spoke with former and current youth in foster care to get their take on the subject. Together, we created a list of the top six characteristics that every foster parent should have. 2017-07-06T10:20:00-05:0072e421b1-ef4d-47a1-ba42-c471fe5ea391https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/06/23/Waller-Nominated-for-HR-Professional-of-the-YearWaller Nominated for HR Professional of the YearRyann Waller, who joined our team this year as the chief human resources officer, was recently nominated for the Trombold Achievement & Kansas Human Resource Professional of the Year Award by the Kansas Society of Human Resource Management (SHRM).2017-06-23T14:25:00-05:000cf438bf-66ec-4c5e-9443-9dd86f5f481fhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/06/09/Practicing-Emotional-Intelligence-Through-YogaPracticing Emotional Intelligence Through YogaEmotional intelligence is the ability to recognize and manage your emotions while also recognizing emotions in others. Through it, you can become self-aware, build self-management skills, become more empathetic, and practice relationship management. We aren’t born with emotional intelligence, so it is something that needs to be practiced. One way to do so is through yoga. 2017-06-09T12:07:00-05:00ac22015c-3dbb-4db5-8de8-8b0ff539b120https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/05/23/Life-with-Siblings-What-to-ExpectLife with Siblings: What to ExpectIn my seven years of fostering, 75% of children who have come through my home have been part of a sibling group of at least two children. It can be a challenge to welcome multiple children with trauma into your home. The new challenges can be based on simple things like laundry, meal preparation, or even the forever challenge of getting everyone out the door in the morning. However, I’ve gathered few observations over the years that might be helpful to share with a family who is ready to take in their first sibling group. 2017-05-23T11:35:00-05:00d7e70b19-f907-4836-a66c-5646d994de2chttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/05/08/5-Adorable-Things-About-Being-a-Foster-Parent5 Adorable Things About Being a Foster ParentMy husband and I recently became licensed foster parents through Cornerstones of Care. My mom would tell you I have waited my entire life for this. Growing up, I always knew I would foster and adopt kids, but most people would probably tell you that this month has been years in the making. Our own ideas about what our foster care journey would look like have changed quite a bit during that time, but we finally found our stride with fostering older kids. 2017-05-08T10:29:00-05:0063711de2-c964-437a-9b73-465fca268ebbhttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/05/02/Know-the-Signs-of-Human-TraffickingKnow the Signs of Human TraffickingHuman trafficking is a growing epidemic. In the United States, reports of human trafficking jumped 35% from 2015 to 2016. Child sex trafficking is one of the most common types of commercial sexual exploitation, and it’s happening right here in our community. But do you know how to recognize the signs? 2017-05-02T09:41:00-05:00d4fcf923-93e3-4e1c-a886-dea9f51229b5https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/04/24/It-All-Started-with-Chinese-Chess-It All Started with Chinese Chess ...Wen Hsin began volunteering with us in August 2016 and has since become a weekly staple at the Cornerstones of Care - Spofford Campus. Wen, who was born in Taiwan, brings unique and educational experiences for the children - teaching them Chinese culture and language, including origami. 2017-04-24T11:54:00-05:00a08edd07-471b-4930-8efc-5fc05a3fa507https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/04/12/Hamilton-Appointed-to-Human-Trafficking-Task-ForceHamilton Appointed to Human Trafficking Task ForcePam Hamilton, LCSW, has been dedicated to educating child welfare professionals on the signs of human trafficking for six years. This year, she was appointed to the Missouri Attorney General’s Human Trafficking Task Force.2017-04-12T14:36:00-05:00f81c6cc6-37b8-45b2-8685-d81bc4b70f00https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/04/03/When-I-was-a-Kid--I-Didnt-Know-I-was-Being-AbusedWhen I was a Kid ... I Didn't Know I was Being AbusedColby, now 23, didn’t understand what abuse was as a child. His family didn’t know the long-lasting effects of child abuse. Now, he’s speaking out against child abuse so that more families know and understand what abuse is, and how to prevent it. 2017-04-03T14:26:00-05:0082b65761-14a7-44cf-9e9f-cc0400ad79echttps://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/03/02/Feeling-Overwhelmed-Create-a-Safety-Plan-Feeling Overwhelmed? Create a Safety Plan. Have you ever felt so overwhelmed or anxious that you’ve let your emotions get the best of you, and have said or done something that you regret? We’ve all been in situations like this. Every day, we regulate our emotions by developing internal safety plans without even knowing it. A safety plan is a defined list of activities or actions that you can choose when you begin to feel overwhelmed. 2017-03-02T16:48:00-06:004974fc4f-c110-4e83-997d-7efb1318c739https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/02/27/Alex-Smith-Honored-for-Work-with-Foster-YouthAlex Smith Honored for Work with Foster YouthKansas City Chiefs quarterback Alex Smith and his wife Elizabeth are dedicated to helping foster care youth achieve their academic dreams. Together, they have been a life-changing partner for many young people in our YES (Youth Educational Success) Program. We are so pleased to be honoring Alex and Elizabeth for all they have done at our Spirit Awards on April 22 at the Kansas City Convention Center.2017-02-27T09:13:00-06:00d8455f28-eb2e-4d64-9e3c-a1d28783c387https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/01/18/6-Ways-You-Can-Make-an-Impact-6 Ways You Can Make an Impact Every day we positively impact the lives of children, youth and families throughout our communities. However, we certainly can’t do this without your help. Our volunteers, supporters, and all of you who invest in our work are just as much a part of our mission as our case workers, nurses, educators and therapists. Here are six ways you can make an even bigger impact in 2017... 2017-01-18T08:57:00-06:008d1ee0d8-7e78-4d10-86af-45e5c7ab8ab1https://www.cornerstonesofcare.org/Blog/2017/01/03/3-Things-to-Know-About-Our-Recent-Merger3 Things to Know About Our Recent MergerSafe children and strong families create healthy communities. When it comes to achieving this goal, we are better together. That is why our founding agencies (Gillis, Healthy Families, Marillac, Ozanam, and Spofford) partnered together nearly 20 years ago. That, plus the desire to do even more, is why we fully merged on January 1 into one organization — Cornerstones of Care. 2017-01-03T14:37:00-06:00